You know sometimes, changing positions and having erotic sex doesn’t really spice things up at night. But there is one thing that’ll definitely get the job done to the fullest. Now, what that might be, dirty talks my friend. But, then again, not everyone can do that. But, don’t worry, we’re here to help you!
Here are some of the ways you could do the dirty talks under the sheets to spice things up at night!
But first thing’s first, why should you be doing it? Because, C’mon girl, silent sex is a complete turn-off and please after a while the moaning and groaning don’t really work out. So, this is as important as getting an erection while having sex.
Building sexual tension is really important. And this my friend is your ticket to the horny club, only a fool would resist getting turned out by this and you can really drive him crazy with that bad mouth.
So, here’s a few things you could do to get the dirty talking started!
1. Start in the shallow end of the pool.
Look, you don’t start dirty talking to your man to spice things from level 10. It can sound really explicit when he’s least expecting it from you.
From example start with, “I miss your dick”, you already have his attention.
The only way to get “out there” is to take it one step at a time, you can start off with teasing him a bit and then later build up the intense stuff.
2. Always begin in the bedroom.
If you’re absolutely new to the dirty talks game, the safest place to do it is in the bedroom at night or whenever you feel like. It’s just the two of you. So, there is absolutely no pressure.
For example, if you’re both lying in bed say, “This could be so much fun if we were naked.”
3. Think about his tastes.
This is absolutely a no brainer, if you’re aiming at pleasing your man, you need to know what are his likes and dislikes, well sexually speaking. Don’t get too carried away and say something which he doesn’t like.
So your man might love it when you say something simple and subtle like, “I can’t wait to get you home,” while you are both at church. Or he may prefer it when you use incredibly explicit dirty talk like, “I can’t wait till we get home so I can get down on my knees and feel your cock throbbing in my mouth.”
4. What do you want?
Well, there’s absolutely no point in giving him hope if at the end of the day you cannot keep up your end of the bargain. So, make sure you know what you want and set his goals accordingly.
For example, try ” Leave your marks on me so that I know that I’m yours” instead of “I don’t want to be able to walk tomorrow so fuck me harder.” this is intense shit lady!
5. Don’t force it.
Do not, please positively and definitely do not force dirty talks. If it’s not your cup of tea then don’t do it.
6. The Dirty Talks Lie.
Please, ladies, do not fall into this trap. Dirty talking is not about being ridiculously explicit and aggressive. It’s not, it’s all about being passionate and most importantly building up the sexual tension!